You are right. I had a friend who was taking birth control pills yet still got pregnant - TWICE - and they adored their two sons who resulted from it. I don’t think it’s any of my business telling a married couple what they can or cannot do in the decision about having kids. I’m NOT talking about abortion or any method that kills preborn life, just that, if they decide to use a barrier method or other actions to still enjoy their God-designed sexual union while avoiding a pregnancy, then that’s between them and God.
So in your Church of One, you approve of artificial birth control? What scripture supports that odd view?