[dmz]

Makes sense to me.

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Of course it does. It was your opinion to begin with.

I have to wonder if your opinion is based on your distaste of the procedure, because we don’t have to go very far to find bad parenting of natural born kids.

My theory is a little different (for which I have the same exact lack of objective data as you do for your opinion). Couples choosing to remain childless usually have made the right decision (for themselves). But all I have is, as I suspect is the case with you, anecdotes.

[mlizzy]

I am prolife dmz. And I don't think it's fair for the IVF child to have to live with her siblings frozen for eternity or worse yet, surgically reduced into death.

I think that is bad parenting, when one places that kind of stress on their child from the get-go.

So, yeah, adopt! Makes everyone happy (if the parents aren't selfish) and nobody dies.