The haters are going to hate. You can tell who they are by the responses.
It’s not hating. I had various odd jobs as a young teen. One job was to deliver flowers to funeral homes and Catholic churches. I also helped my dad and his friend on high demand weekends at funeral homes and at the cemetery. I learned early the proper etiquette for mostly Catholic funerals and wakes. Did some Greek Orthodox and Jewish funerals as well given the demographics. I went through the proper handling of the deceased from bow to stern when one of my father’s fellow Knights of Columbus passed away. What goes in the casket stays in the casket...period.