If your kid is gay then he need psychiatric help to make he’s normal again.
I agree. It is part of a larger personality development problem.
We all struggle in maturing but luckily most of us don't have problems with developing our opposite gender attraction.
Those that do need help. They do not need to be told that they are fine and that they do not need to develop fully as adults.
Additionally, not all men are alpha males. Some men are more feminine...nothing wrong with that (and nothing that summer camp at Parris Island can't cure;-)). But homosexuality is a deadly lifestyle based on a foundation of pure sexual addiction (which is one of the reasons God defines it as a sin).
From what i've seen of "psychiatric help" i'm thinking you aren't going to get any useful results from it.
It’s illegal in California... and some other states as well.