i agree, I have been praying fervently for the same thing for 6 years with no result
I am convinced that all of our prayers are heard and answered, just not always in the time or fashion that we expect or desire. I am sure that there already have been or will be results to your and my prayers that will bring each of us closer to our dear Lord and that His plan is better than ours and we will come to see it.
Even though it is especially difficult to see now, in my personal experience after His plans have become plain to me, in hindsight I can often laugh about how silly my fears and doubts were at time.
All Glory to God!