No body is asking anyone to leave in our parish. There is one heterosexual married couple who sort of creep me out in that they hold hands all during the service and approach the altar for Communion holding hands. But I guess its okay. If two men did that I would be refusing them communion. I’m an EME.
I'm surprised you feel that way since you said you and your husband hold hands during the Pater Noster and kiss afterwards. Creepy.