I just looked for a LCMS in my area, and the closest is an hour away. But, I do think it is a solid pro-life, scripture honoring, biblical leadership church. At this point, I’m in favor of those who are believers in the inspired Holy Scripture, the Trinity, the real death, burial and resurrection, a male priesthood, holy biblical marriage, and adherence to the classic affirmations of faith. LCMS fits all of that. While there are advantages to living out in the country, there a times when you are really far from some opportunities.
I commuted 67 miles each way for three years while converting to Lutheranism. Finally things changed and now I live a few minutes away from church. It has been worth it. But I hear you, and every situation is different. My life is relatively unencumbered compared to many people.