For some but not all. Sometimes the pettiness inside the church with the "clicks" drives people away. That and all the focus to help people overseas or in urban communities but never any help for some of the church members themselves.
True, I’ve seen that as well.
But I still think there’s a degree of laziness in it all the same. Because people driven away by cliques or some other petty issue often just go somewhere else.
Believe me, I’ve been wickedly lazy in this area myself....I know the thought process. You get upset because you can’t find what you want and then you just *happen* to alight on a plan that allows you to stay home on Sunday. Oh wow, well that makes it easy! :)
And you give up trying.