Have you read the books? There is nothing in the books that says that the ring of power gives the wearer the power to control people.
The ring of power gave the Lord of Mordor the power to control those who wore the lesser rings.
Three Rings for the Elven-kings under the sky,
Seven for the Dwarf-lords in halls of stone,
Nine for Mortal Men, doomed to die,
One for the Dark Lord on his dark throne
In the Land of Mordor where the Shadows lie.
One Ring to rule them all, One Ring to find them,
One Ring to bring them all and in the darkness bind them.
In the Land of Mordor where the Shadows lie..
I dont think I have ever met anyone who read the books to the end that did not enjoy the series.
I read from the Simalarion (I know I misspelled that, alright) and the Hobbit and LOTR every second year.