Yeah, but that "banter" most likely consisted of, "So, you goin' fishin' this weekend?" or "Saw your son at last Saturday's football game. Did real good!"
Or, if it got real political, "So, you votin' for Jones (D), who supports building a second firehouse, or for Smith (R), who thinks we ought instead to expand the existing firehouse?"
Nowadays, the first words out of your pew neighbor are likely to be, "We're having a 'Re-assignment Party' for our 13-year-old, Chad - er, I mean: Cheryl - next Saturday. Care to come? Oh, and of course: Bring your Significant Other, too!"
Regards,