Since the perpetrators who robbed and assaulted your family had it done to their family in the past, you should just shut up about it...
this makes sense to you?
If some loon wants to stand on the sidewalk in front of my house, which is my property, but over which there is a public easement, and harangue me, I will not like it, but it is legal and I will shut up and take it.
Grow up. Words will not hurt you unless you're mentally defective or under the age of 6.
So9