I must politely disagree with you, Becky. tame has not rejected the kind and loving advice. In fact, if you read the thread you will see that he specifically gives thanks and accepts it. Look, we cannot forget the seriousness of what is being discussed--the pain tht tame and Joey are dealing with. One of the first rules of counseling (be it pastoral or otherwise) is the wisdom of love in pratice...that is, a sensitivity and compassion to those being advised. I don't think the cursing should be discounted. tame's reaction to such brutal words simply does not equal a rejection of much of the advice on this thread.
tame would be the first to tell you that. He's a sensitive and caring person who wants what is best.