Their practices are the basis for such popular sayings such as "kiss my a$$" and being a "brown-noser" or "C_cks_ck_r". These core practices of the gay lifestyle are what the gays do not want people to think about in regard to them. Gays do not want the truth of their lifestyle to be known because they know that regular people will be disgusted with them, and then will not be sympathetic to their demands for more acceptance.