I'll re-post what I said last time:
Sometimes when friendships end, women get the irrational desire not just to leave, but to DESTROY you. So be careful, and even if you try to work things outside of court, make sure you have a good lawyer handy, because things can get really, really nasty. Women are strange that way.
With all due respect for the men who have been wronged by spiteful women, I must say that is a two-way street. My s-i-l, who abused my daughter (both emotionally and physically ... we have pictures to prove it plus a guilty plea to assault charges), is now waging a very ugly custody battle for their children and is doing his best to turn the children against their mother. The children are just 2 1/2 and 3 1/2 years old. He came very close to driving our daughter to suicide and is still determined to destroy her.
It's not women who are strange that way .... it is some people .... of both sexes.
New Horizon ~~~ hang in there. Life will get better if you let it happen! God bless you!