[FormerLib]

Maybe sexuality is a toss-up for you...

Sorry, but behavior is always a choice. People who cannot choose their own behaviors are a threat to themselves and to others.

...but most of the rest of us are a little more definite in which gender we're attracted to.

'Gender' refers to grammar. We're discussing behaviors and choices, right and wrong.

If you've got some choices to make however, I'm sure someone out there is willing to help.

No help needed. I'm normal. Thanks for caring.

[flyervet]

Sorry, but behavior is always a choice.

Sure it is. But you're talking about sexual orientation, not sexual acts. I can no more be attracted to the same sex than I can be attracted to fat, hairy-legged feminazis. It pervades my identity. In fact, it's a very basic part of my identity, just as much as my race and gender. It's simply beyond comprehension that you or anyone thinks such a basic character trait is a choice. Anyone who honestly believes that orientation is a myth and a choice is simply not mentally stable.