[Poohbah]

On the other, other hand, (as the Moties would say)

Actually, it's "on the one hand blah blah blah, on the other hand blah blah blah, but the gripping hand is blah blah blah."

[NicknamedBob]

"..., but the gripping hand is blah ..."

If you use the gripping hand first, they can't get away from you...