Hence my point about the ingratitude of American women for American men.
Ungrateful? We are very grateful for kind, supportive, respectful men who see us as a friend and partner and don't see us as a cross between a maid, yard man, blow up doll and bank. In the way of their hanging out with their 'real buddies' and the girlfriend on the side. No surprise, we show them the door.
And when it comes to baggage---- take it from me....while women may have enough to fill a bass boat, most guys could sink the Titanic with their steamer trunks of "Susie, in 9th grade dumped me, and I have NEVER trusted a woman again!!!" Argh. Get over it already, you are 52!