Pick on her. Tease her. Treat her like your bratty little sister. Beautiful women are used to adoring comments from losers - they get them fifty times a day. You've got to do something different to catch her interest. This is why "jerks" do so well - women respond to the challenge. Be confident, not worshipful. You have power, too. You don't have to give it all away to a woman you don't even know yet just to get her to pay attention to you. Turn the usual perspective around: she's looking for a husband, and you might be the one...so she had better be on her best behavior with
you.
You think this approach will drive women away? Convince them you are a jerk? It's just the opposite, my friend.
Tell her she's beautiful and she's just going to think: "Yeah, right. I know what this guy wants. What a loser. Maybe I can get him to buy me things for a while." ;)