If you had any sense of what a man is, you would know that the "man" who lost his son is no part of a man. You are clearly unable to see that, and I pity you. This person's actions endangered others, brought shame on himself and his family, and dishonored the memory of his son. He deserves much worse than the ridicule of strangers, but that's all I can offer him.
If the Marines that you contend that he endangered (they apparently did not feel endangered) can forgive him and YOU cannot, it is you I pity.
When you are rude, insenitive, and wrong and apologize, you have honor.
When you are rude, insenitive, and wrong and try to place the blame on others, you are a cad and a lout.
I see you are new here. If this format does not suit you, you are free to leave and not come back.