You are in reality guilty of a crime as soon as you commit it. Your legal status as innocent until your trial is over just means your trial is not over and you cant yet be punished for the crime. In reality if you do a crime you have done it, weather others can prove you did it and punish you is a different question.
This judge was talking to the child in terms of reality, she was not punishing anyone, just yet.
I can not understand why she would reduce charges or bond.
Much of our judicial system has been convinced by "experts" child abuse is caused by poverty, oppression and racism. The notion that child abusers are evil is foreign to the leftist mind.