Heh, of course not--I didn't get the impression that you would advocate violence OR peeping toms. And I can appreciate a man wanting to look at women other than his wife, and frankly your post was kinda cute. I think I'm reacting to the fact that I equate "conservative man" with "gentleman," and sometimes men post things on this board that aren't at all gentlemanly. I have to assume that that's NOT how they act in the real world.
(I also think that as my nieces get older I get more sensitive about these things.) :-)
Like the old guy told me once, when his daughter was young and would bring a date home, he would be seated at his table cleaning his guns and knives.