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I really do not understand older women who go after teenage boys. Or older men who go after teenage girls. I did see one of these women on TV - can't remember which one - but she was very lovely. They showed her sitting in the back of a vehicle. She was wearing some sort of funky hat and chewing gum. Suddenly it occurred to me that she looked and acted like a teen herself. Perhaps these older women have some case of arrested development. I do know a local woman who is well into her forties and one day she told me she was really trying hard to lose weight because she missed men looking at her. I repeated this conversation to another friend who also knows her and she said "Don't you get the feeling sometimes that you are talking to an overaged teenager". So, yes, I do believe, somewhere along the way, these folks simply stop growing mentally into mature adults. She was right! I could never put my finger on why I felt there was something strange about my conversations with this lady, but they were different than talking with another adult. They will someday be sixty and still think they are teens.

I have a close friend, a guy who is to some extent the same way. He is fairly handsome and has a great personality. He always was able to date just about any girl he wanted to.

He never married and I noticed as we got older that he continued to day young girls. He has dated some pretty striking girls too. In fact one of them was a former Miss World from Venezuela.

As he began to approach 60 he finally decided to get married. Trouble is he can no longer have his pick of the younger girls so he goes to Japan and marries a model there who is only 18.

I really like him but he is still a teenager in many respects.

I really do not understand older women who go after teenage boys. Or older men who go after teenage girls. I did see one of these women on TV - can't remember which one - but she was very lovely. They showed her sitting in the back of a vehicle. She was wearing some sort of funky hat and chewing gum.

I think that was Pamela Rogers or something like that. From a small town in Tennessee. I think she was a coach at an elementary school and her victim was 11 or 12 years old. She was 27.

"I really do not understand older women who go after teenage boys."

- Because boys reach their sexual peak at 18.

I agree that the women most likely have arrested development, probably due to having been sexualized early and learning to like the feeling of power that it gave them over men. As they grew older, the feeling of power decreased and so they seek out younger men. (Just a theory, but I do think that pedophilia is related to power)