So using your logic: If I supported a friend in his effort to ward off his neighbor and defend himself, and later find out my so called friend was using my support to abuse his children, I should just sit back and say, Oops. my bad?
I do think it would be more prudent to not only stop my support of my now ex-friend, but also intervene for the children. But hey, thats just my way of trying to right a wrong, even if it was my own wrong.
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