Sounds like you are still carrying issues............. Led a sheltered life?? Smothered? Restricted?? Get a grip. Do you really think because you are restricted that you don't fight back on some level?
I didn't fight back by sleeping around at 14, lady.
You people that think this kind of behavior is inevitable at 14 are just excusing your own incompetence and cowardice as parents. Period. End of discussion.