Call a lawyer...you can appoint anyone you want to be in charge of your affairs. This is all about forcing homosexual marriage down our throats. It is not marriage. In my opinion Homosexual couples should not receive benefits and can do anything they wish in the privacy of their home. Keep your sex life private, it is of no interest to me.
I don't think that the majority of gays are after "marriage" but are after benefits from the government that heterosexuals have. If you are born gay, make a commitment to a partner, why shouldn't they receive these benefits as tax paying citizens?
Ultimately, the only solution is to separate marriage and state.