I'm like you. I like nice elegant surroundings, I even fung shei or whatever you call it. I like flow. Wifie though, well, we recently moved, and (this is the truth) she packed, in boxes, old newspapers.
Oy. I can't imagine packing newspapers. That's outrageous. I like flow to but I think feng shui is a myth, though it sounds nice. Good luck. On a humorous note, years ago when we bought our first house, there was a counter top with two drawers directly underneath, located in the kitchen. That counter had the phone, mail, you know, the usual junk. The point was for all the papers and stuff to at least stay in one spot. Though we each had our own drawer, his, of course, was stuffed and I could never get that counter cleaned of his junk. One day I saw that he had placed some of his cr@p on the counter next to my stove because he was running out of space and I told him that there was no way he was gong to build an annex on the other counter. We both laughed at that. It's just a battle every day, that's all I can say.