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A fresh focus on domestic partners (Focus on the Family supports gay rights bill)
The Denver Post Online ^ | 02/06/2006 01:00:00 AM | Editorial board

Posted on 02/09/2006 12:55:09 PM PST by Terriergal

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To: Terriergal

"Well, we of course don't enforce cohabitation or other anti-promiscuity laws that are on the books.
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What laws are those? Can you give me examples?


41 posted on 02/09/2006 1:40:06 PM PST by MineralMan (godless atheist)
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To: Terriergal
How do you decide who is 'head of household'???

Whoever has the biggest head, wins?

BTW, not totally sure I trust this source. The Denver Post has long had an axe to grind re FoF.

42 posted on 02/09/2006 1:42:36 PM PST by Alex Murphy (Colossians 4:5)
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To: Mulch

Where has Dobson refuted this? Link, please.


43 posted on 02/09/2006 1:50:02 PM PST by MineralMan (godless atheist)
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To: Terriergal
I'm not a member of Focus On the Family and I seldom follow their activities but I've been hearing a lot about this proposal and I think it has real merit.

The bill totally ignores your sexual proclivities (if any) and concentrates on the issues that can affect any two people who throw in together over the long haul. People like platonic friends who have shelved dating, elderly siblings who find themselves together, an adult child caring for an elderly parent, and so on.

If anything, this bill extends a large measure of benefits to many people who can use the help while throwing a dash of cold water on the whole gay marriage thing. If it was always about benefit equality and never about diluting "real" marriage, then why not accept this bill?

If this bill and similar efforts are passed, I expect that employers will restrict benefits to the employee. Nonworking partners will have to set up an HSA and buy catastrophic health insurance.

This may be a better way to go than it first appears.
44 posted on 02/09/2006 1:51:10 PM PST by Gingersnap
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To: Anitius Severinus Boethius

Why does focus on the family have to support either version?


45 posted on 02/09/2006 1:51:17 PM PST by Terriergal ("My conscience is captive to the word of God...here I stand. I can do no other. So help me God." ML)
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To: TheClintons-STILLAnti-American

I'm a Christian myself, and ashamed for the majority of lukewarm CINOS that everyone calls Christian.


46 posted on 02/09/2006 1:52:06 PM PST by Terriergal ("My conscience is captive to the word of God...here I stand. I can do no other. So help me God." ML)
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To: Emmalein
I'm not looking at this bill as strictly a gay rights bill--that is just a component of it. I just think that since so many freedoms are getting clamped down it's nice to see a little openness.

The freedom to turn reality on its head and demand by judicial fiat and or legislative subterfuge that society recognize homosexual activity as normal or somehow beneficial to society will remain clamped down for eternity...

47 posted on 02/09/2006 1:53:17 PM PST by DBeers (†)
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To: L98Fiero
I've often wondered why I had to be related to someone by marriage to buy insurance for them.

Because the nuclear family is what benefits society, therefore society has a duty to encourage it.

48 posted on 02/09/2006 1:53:28 PM PST by Terriergal ("My conscience is captive to the word of God...here I stand. I can do no other. So help me God." ML)
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To: L98Fiero

And from a Christian standpoint, (which doesn't apply to government necessarily) it is the only sanctioned family unit, separable only by death.

The point is not that Colorado is going to pass the bill, the point is that FOF, ostensibly a Christian family organization, is endorsing it.


49 posted on 02/09/2006 1:54:33 PM PST by Terriergal ("My conscience is captive to the word of God...here I stand. I can do no other. So help me God." ML)
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To: Terriergal
Compromise is everywhere.

Especially in the ethics of the paper that printed this distortion of facts...

50 posted on 02/09/2006 1:54:50 PM PST by DBeers (†)
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To: Emmalein
Medical decisions if a person is incapacitated and their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance isn't considered family so isn't filled in or consulted.

As I understand these are already legal... next of kin decisions. Next of kin should still have priority over cohabitors.

51 posted on 02/09/2006 1:56:22 PM PST by Terriergal ("My conscience is captive to the word of God...here I stand. I can do no other. So help me God." ML)
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To: MineralMan

You know there have been laws on the books for a long time about adultery, sodomy, etc. that don't get enforced.


52 posted on 02/09/2006 1:56:58 PM PST by Terriergal ("My conscience is captive to the word of God...here I stand. I can do no other. So help me God." ML)
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To: Terriergal
They were probably asked which of the two they supported. It's like asking a politician "When did you stop beating your wife?"

People with an axe to grind, and those who are looking too hard for specks in other people's eyes, make it hazardous to have an opinion on anything in the Christian world.

I note that you do not disagree with my assesment of the situation, for example, but you are continuing to dig for a "solid" reason for criticizing Focus on the Family.

53 posted on 02/09/2006 1:58:45 PM PST by Anitius Severinus Boethius
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To: Terriergal

"You know there have been laws on the books for a long time about adultery, sodomy, etc. that don't get enforced."

There used to be, but they're all pretty much gone. I know of no state that has an active law against adultery, although the UCMJ does have such a regulation. The sodomy laws of virtually every state have been repealed or declared unconstitutional.

So, tell me which laws you are talking about. I'm sorry, but you're incorrect about there being laws against cohabitation.


54 posted on 02/09/2006 1:59:20 PM PST by MineralMan (godless atheist)
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To: Terriergal
"I'm a Christian myself, and ashamed for the majority of lukewarm CINOS that everyone calls Christian."

Most people in this country call themselves Christians, yet know a tiny fraction of what they think they know about the Bible--little more than a few of the more popular childrens' Sunday school stories.

I've been told by a scholar and author on Islam that the vast majority of Muslims are the same way. They are more cultural Muslims than possessors of firsthand Koranic knowledge. This is true in part because the Koran, even with the improvements done to some "translations", is tediously boring and repetitive--a near impossibility to read.

This leaves many easily manipulated as to what it means to be a "good Muslim", but on the other hand there are over a hundred verses in the Koran that teach violence, which are used to radicalize those who want to be considered good Muslims rather easily by those of influence.

Allah was, as far as I can tell, Mohammad's alter-ego, who gave a godly stamp of approval to Mo's edicts. Nothing more.

Allah is easy to relate ---he's like a human bully with unlimited power--much like most people can imagine being if they had the opportunity. As long as you do his bidding and he's in a good mood he'll reward you. If you don't please him, his wrath is terrible.

The teachings are clever in terms of threats of what will happen if you doubt or question Islam, let alone renounce it. It's difficult to get even intelligent, educated followers to take an objective view of the "religion", which reveals it for the cult of repression and eternal death that it is.

56 posted on 02/09/2006 2:14:39 PM PST by TheClintons-STILLAnti-American (Keep the adults in charge of Congress.)
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To: TheCrusader
Do you know what the 7th commandment is? There is not or has there ever been any form to read & sign for membership. They do not exclude any Catholic from anything. I know Catholics who work there.

The bill that is put forth is for blood relatives or adopted members. Adopted children, Brother/Sister or Uncle/nephew....
It is NOT based on sexual orientation or does it allow for those living together. That is the bill right now. Not to say later someone will try to change it. If they change it I know FOF will pull there approval.

Also, I noted someone mentioned Family Research Institution. The Christian organization that FOF is close to is Family Research "Council"
57 posted on 02/09/2006 2:21:39 PM PST by Linda Sandoval (Acquitting the guilty and condemning the innocent-the Lord detests them both. Proverbs)
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To: mlc9852
I am really shocked by this. Does Dr. Dobson know about this?

I honestly think this is a good thing. I have know many people through the years who were not gay, but who were domestic partners. I'm thinking of several instances of elderly widows I have know who lived together for years and while not related, were closer to each other than any of their own family were. I know a set of brothers, never married, both born with a congenital birth defects which pretty much precluded the typical marriage scenario for both of them. They lived together all of their lives and were closer than many typical married couples. When the older brother who had been able to work and provided most of the household income died a few years ago, the younger was forced to pay the state inheritance tax on his brother's savings. That just did not seem fair to me.

The point being that yes, they can leave wills naming the survivor as their heir, but there are still many legal and financial hoops to jump through that shouldn't be. If they can declare a "domestic partnership" and own community property, they would not need to be faced with those burdens.

The gays are going to do what they will do and opposing this law does nothing to stop that. But there are far more people living in non-sexual domestic partnership that are really getting screwed by the system.

58 posted on 02/09/2006 2:45:28 PM PST by Ditto ( No trees were killed in sending this message, but billions of electrons were inconvenienced.)
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To: Terriergal
Regarding your tag; here's another:

"A Christian man is the most free lord of all, and subject to none. A Christian man is the most dutiful servant of all, and subject to every one. -ML

God's blessings!

59 posted on 02/09/2006 2:50:27 PM PST by bcsco ("He who is wedded to the spirit of the age is soon a widower" - Anonymous)
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To: Linda Sandoval

This article makes it pretty clear that this bill represents a variety of arrangements. The sponsor of the bill specifically says that it will include same-sex relationships. Where did you get the information that it was only for blood relatives?


60 posted on 02/09/2006 3:57:25 PM PST by ga medic
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