Unless, of course, you've been trying for a very long time to get pregnant. My baby Nicholas, who is no longer with us, will always be a miracle to me, no matter what you might say.
It's a sad irony of life that so many people who want children and would make good parents don't seem to have any luck getting pregnant, while the numbskulls among us get knocked up at the drop of a hat.
They are a gift from god. I'm sorry about your loss. :(