"I'm in my early 30's and absolutely hate the "women's movement" for basically making me have to work."
No one is forcing you to work. If it's important to both of you that you stay home, he's just going to have to make more money.
What a hoot! He's got a full time job as an electrical engineer. As a civil engineer, he and I have fairly equal incomes. You suggest a doubling of his salary for me to stay home, how?