Your hurt feelings are outweighed by the higher good of the common good, Ms. Watts.
Sorry. Feelings don't trump everything else.
I know the Watts family. They have two children who are gay/lesbian. They don't have much to do with the LDS church anymore. It is very sad.
And you are quite right. Just because a small minority doesn't want their feelings hurt does not mean we should not stand on principle and say that marriage is between a man and a woman.