Ann is usually funny, but talking about the personal relationships of 9/11 widows with their husbands is a losing topic to comment about. There is no way to win in a debate like that.
BUT that is precisely her point!
She is decrying the way the left hides behind people who cannot be argued with because of their "victimhood" and then uses those people to proselytize their talking points.
"Mutha" Sheehan is another prime example.