I don't understand how people can stay connected to a church where they behave this way...being an Anglican shouldn't mean more than being a Christian.
But then, maybe I'm just simple...
In the Episcopal church (and really, Anglican churches in general), one is smply overall a member of the parish. (I speak from experience.) What happens outside the parish is rarely noted, except on the really rare occasions that it intrudes on parish life with things such as a new, revised prayer book.
One might hear of strange, odd things, such as the first woman bishop (unqualified, no pastoral experience, but she's black & female), but even these don't really intrude on your parish life, they're vague and far away. Things go on as they always have, and the infrequent changes tend to be small. One accomodates them -- there tends to be nothing to drive you away, unless you are looking for it.
Or you encounter a trigger.
As I did, in my first, last and only ECUSA diocesan convention. I saw what reigned outside my parish -- and left.