Frankly, if I was going to kid's parties expecting to be entertained or if I was reading kid's literature expecting to find some superficial enjoyment out of it, I would be bored out of my mind, too.
Don't get me wrong, I wholeheartedly agree with the condemnation of this selfish person.
Her goal is focused on herself. A mother sees beyond the activity and looks toward the goal of the activity, raising healthy, wholesome, happy adults who were provided with the myriad of experiences and opportunities along the way for growth and enrichment.
Not only is this woman to be condemned, she is to be pitied.
Ironically, Because of Winn Dixie was one of the 10 best books I read last year. I also include "Oh, the Things You will Do" as one of the best pieces of modern poetry ever written. Gets me weepy every time!