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U.S. could use more girlie men (B.Y.O.B.B.)
St. Petersburg Times ^ | August 20, 2006 | ROBYN E. BLUMNER

Posted on 08/20/2006 1:19:02 PM PDT by Lorianne

Deadwood is one of my favorite programs. Set in a South Dakota gold mining camp in the 1870s, it grittily explores the way human beings organize themselves when consigned to a lawless territory that attracts miscreants, varmints and vultures.

A recent episode had an especially insightful moment when all the leaders of the camp were called to an important meeting without an invitation proffered to the female owner of the camp's only bank. Alma Garret could have all the money in the world, but because she has two X chromosomes (a distinction more graphically described in the show), she wasn't about to have a voice in camp affairs.

The writers were right. Testosterone-laden Deadwood is not a welcome place for women. When the law is determined by the number of gunslingers on your side, women don't flourish. But neither do men, certainly not men of learning or ability. Which is why Deadwood, as its name suggests, is doomed.

I mention this because I've been feeling lately that the world has suddenly gone all male - Deadwood-male to be exact. And this is not a good sign for civilization.

Although I consider myself a feminist, I'm not the man-hating kind. Men have clearly been at the forefront of nearly all the great advances in science, medicine and humanist thought.

We understand the physical forces of the world thanks to Isaac Newton and the natural ones thanks to Charles Darwin. There wouldn't have been an Enlightenment without John Locke or Voltaire. Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr. and Nelson Mandela remind us that compassion and a taste for social justice are found in both sexes.

I also believe that men and women are more similar than they are different.

Still, those who would glorify violence and the law of the streets are thought of as masculine for a reason. Dirty Harry never said, Let's talk about it.

Fighting terrorism has steeped us in a social psychology that is palpably different from our 50-year battle with the Soviet bear. There is something more aggressively mano a mano about fighting Islamic extremists. And that difference has been exploited by our leaders to justify knocking down the rules of civilization, such as the Geneva Conventions, as being too effete. The claim is we must respond to the terrorists' lack of humanity by throwing out our own standards. The result is a vicious cycle of ever-deepening depravity (Let's talk secret CIA prisons).

Yet this dirty, street-fighting paradigm has fit perfectly with George Bush's swaggering cowboy approach to geopolitics. Bush likes his enemies in black hats and hiding in the brush. For Bush, justice gets meted out when the good guys take matters into their own hands and don't wait for lawyers with fancy words like "due process."

But what you never see is that when the hero rides into the sunset, the real work of rebuilding a society is left behind.

The Deadwood hero leaves bodies in the thoroughfare, while the reality hero tries to prevent the bloodshed in the first place. The Deadwood hero is a vigilante, while the reality hero understands the inherent value of a society dictated by the rule of law. The Deadwood hero is impulsive, aggressive and macho, while the reality hero is a rational consensus-builder with an intelligent plan of action.

Under a curtain of fear from terrorism, we have been manipulated into thinking that our national security depends on casting our lot with a Deadwood hero, when in fact it lies with the other.

International affairs professor Gary Bertsch at the University of Georgia - he is also director of the Center for International Trade and Security - puts it forthrightly: "The Bush administration has relied on hard power (militarism) rather than diplomacy (soft power) and it has been very costly. It is reshaping the view that the rest of the world has of the United States as a responsible power."

Bertsch says it is in our national interest to put much more emphasis on dialogue, give and take and negotiation over military dominance. Otherwise, he warns, our allies will soon no longer regard the United States as a model to follow.

Deadwood societies are anti-intellectual havens of selfishness and triumphalism, where warfare and violence are extolled and the feminine ethos of cooperation, understanding and forbearance are disparaged as weak. There is little doubt that many Muslim subgroups fit this mold. Their men would rather shoot guns at ancient enemies than build a modern society. But it is also true that our nation has adopted more of this aspect under Bush than we would like to admit.

Almost nothing could be more damaging to our future prosperity or security. A Deadwood society will never foster positive social change or human advancement. Its focus on force will evoke more violence. Its contempt for intellectuals will silence reason. And if we continue to inch down this road, our fate will be just as bleak as that of the residents of that muddy street in that grimy town in the Black Hills of South Dakota.


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To: Lorianne

Feminism and girly men will get you dead surer than small pox.


101 posted on 08/20/2006 5:45:42 PM PDT by TASMANIANRED (The Internet is the samizdat of liberty..)
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To: durasell

But he hadn't gotten that far up yet and there WERE shanties there, when The Dakota was first built. Go look it up. :-)


102 posted on 08/20/2006 5:48:52 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: JohnnyZ
Once you get beneath the facade of the never-ending swearing, you will find the most elegant language combined with the most intelligent writing ever seen on a moving screen.
103 posted on 08/20/2006 5:49:20 PM PDT by eddie willers
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To: JohnnyZ

Each to his/her own.


104 posted on 08/20/2006 5:50:52 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: pabianice
BTW, "Deadwood" has been canceled.

Yeah....and "Friends" lasted forever.

There is a moral here, somewhere.

105 posted on 08/20/2006 5:51:04 PM PDT by eddie willers
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To: George Smiley

I don't like SHOWTIME and we haven't had it for years. Maybe we need to switch.....now.


106 posted on 08/20/2006 5:53:10 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: eddie willers
I agree with you completely!

DEADWOOD is as great a show as anything the Brits have ever turned out and they've done the best T.V. for decades.

107 posted on 08/20/2006 5:55:18 PM PDT by nopardons
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To: Lorianne

'Cuz y'know, the world is just like television!


108 posted on 08/20/2006 5:57:24 PM PDT by Cogadh na Sith (There's an open road from the cradle to the tomb.)
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To: gidget7

BTTT


109 posted on 08/20/2006 5:57:55 PM PDT by 185JHP ( "The thing thou purposest shall come to pass: And over all thy ways the light shall shine.")
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To: Lorianne
Did the men in Deadwood make the women wear all black robes from head to feet that covered their face?

Did the men in Deadwood stone to death the women for committing a sin?

Well the terrorist and their backers do.

What a dumbass. I'll bet she i the first one in line for a Dixie chick concert.
110 posted on 08/20/2006 6:13:08 PM PDT by kempo
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To: nopardons
As to the language of the show.....

The cursing is...and is not...anachronistic.

After researching, they (the producers) found that the typical Deadwood resident cursed all the time. HOWEVER....the swearing that so shocked the contemporaneous ears and sensibilities sounds much like Yosemite Sam today. So instead of matching the words of the times exactly, the decision was made to substitute words that fall on OUR ears as coarsely as the those of that time. It would be like trying to explain how shocking the ending of GWTW was to 1939 audiences and just repeating the "Frankly, my dear....I don't give a damn". Ho-hum. To get across how that phrase shocked, you would probably have to change it to "Frankly, my dear...you can suck my.....".
111 posted on 08/20/2006 6:13:40 PM PDT by eddie willers
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To: Lorianne
The womyn herself:


112 posted on 08/20/2006 6:16:19 PM PDT by VeniVidiVici (Rabid ethnicist.)
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To: durasell
Diplomacy also works if backed up by economic might...

My next sentence was "It does no good to offer the bad guys something, if they can just take it without having to negotiate with you over it".

A wealthy country which is not able to defend it's wealth, will not keep its wealth

113 posted on 08/20/2006 6:17:57 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor (A planned society is most appealing to those with the arrogance to think they will be the planners)
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To: SauronOfMordor

Depends on how you define wealth. Today the "wealth of nations" is partly defined by its markets. That is to say, how many people available to buy stuff? What's the exchange rate? What is the average income?

It's mistake to define national strength purely in military terms.


114 posted on 08/20/2006 6:22:40 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: SauronOfMordor
Found the Orwell FAQ:

Rough Men

Did George Orwell ever say: "People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf?" Or: "We sleep safely at night because rough men stand ready to visit violence on those who would harm us?"

Not exactly. But he did make comments that were along similar lines. In his essay on Rudyard Kipling (1942), Orwell wrote: "[Kipling] sees clearly that men can only be highly civilized while other men, inevitably less civilised, are there to guard and feed them." (Thanks to Keith Ammann for this). And in his 'Notes on Nationalism' (1945) he wrote: "Those who "abjure" violence can only do so because others are committing violence on their behalf." (Thanks to Parbety). Where the rough men crept in is anyone's guess.

115 posted on 08/20/2006 6:59:40 PM PDT by George Smiley (This tagline has been Reutered. (Can you tell?))
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To: durasell

He boxed, fought, and acted more like a man than most men do today. Hell he was at one time a boxing promoter and fught on and off for years.

As to his love life how many men have had movies based on their love affairs? Oh I can think of one "The Whole Wide World" based on Howard's.


So he never married? and yes he stayed and cared for his Mother who was dying of Tuberculoisis. Wow he was such a wuss of a man.


116 posted on 08/20/2006 7:09:42 PM PDT by Sentis
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To: Lorianne

Miss Robyn can enjoy her freedom to spout inannities...unfortunately those who fail to fully understand exactly where their freedoms come from will quickly lose them.

"Good people sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf"

http://www.mudvillegazette.com/


117 posted on 08/20/2006 7:11:38 PM PDT by mo
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To: Sentis

Read Dark Valley Destiny. The guy was clearly out of his mind. But I mean that in the best possible way. Really. His weirdness allowed him to create these entire, fully-imagined worlds.

Again, his love life was weird. His mother kept him away from girls and girls away from him. I believe the one woman he actually dated (Price?)didn't last long.


118 posted on 08/20/2006 7:15:18 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: Lorianne

Funny! Thanks for the post.


119 posted on 08/20/2006 7:17:35 PM PDT by 68skylark
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To: durasell

He dated her steadily for several years almost married her and yes his mother tried her best to quash the relationship.

I personally believe and there is evidence he suffered mild schizophrenia which would have had no medical treatment in the 30's.


120 posted on 08/20/2006 7:19:23 PM PDT by Sentis
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