I'm sorry to hear that.
In your previous post you said "I managed to end up in Texas where a found a church that was very accepting and graceful."
Then in this post you said that your church was the opposite -- "superficial" -- and that you took in a family. Sorry but I'm confused by your posts. Are you from the Katrina area or are you a native of Texas?
I am living in the DFW area. It was a collaberative effort among area churches. Mine only has 75-80 regular members. It was the larger ones that delayed and confused the planned response.