This is also interesting from 2004...
"Aravosis said he obtained the latest information about the five-term congressman from Foley’s former chief of staff, Kirk Fordham. Fordham, who is gay, is now the finance director for Mel Martinez, who has come out in favor of FMA. Fordham denied ever speaking with Aravosis."
http://www.nyblade.com/2004/7-9/news/national/outed.cfm