[xsmommy]

as i said i feel for the parents and i have grave concerns about the ethical limits of such situations. i have made no secret of it, but i think it is far more important that people feel free to express their opinions without the THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE flag being waved in their faces. i have seen it happen many times. question my motives all you like, as i said i am comfortable with my posting history and reputation on FR. i don't engage in flamewars, don't call names or cast aspersions. i am calling for civil discourse on this thread from both sides and that makes me suspect? odd.

[trisham]

i think it is far more important that people feel free to express their opinions without the THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE flag being waved in their faces

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Agreed.

[r9etb]

but i think it is far more important that people feel free to express their opinions without the THOU SHALT NOT JUDGE flag being waved in their faces.

And yet you avoid any discussion of this case. Why?