You don't need to be outta here. My post to you was not a condemnation of you or your post. I was only giving my perspective, and you've made good points, too. They are both valid.
FWIW, I know that plenty of my posts on FR have irked people over the years. Some people here at FR are not exactly quiet little mice, myself included. We are all here for one reason or another. There's no reason that we can't discuss our ideas maturely, that is, at least none that I can think of at the moment. My best to you!
Thanks ...I overreacted...
I don't know anyone that doesn't really want to know how this happened...just in case it happens to someone we know.
OR..if someone goes missing in my area of the country..any ideas about what to look for, or anything that could help me maybe notice a clue...is something I would like to learn about this case.
I want Shawn and Ben to have all of the privacy they need...but anything we find out and throw out, by way of discussion, could help find a boy before he is gone 4 years.
We are cool...
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