Maybe you could explain to me why reponsibility equals blame. Funny how THAT is what you seem unwilling to engage in. I have stated quite clearly that blame and responsibility are two different things.
Yet you continue to claim I blame the victim for what the offender did. Why is that? I do no such thing and you should not say I do because it means you keep saying something that is not true.
I am under the impression that this boy had a best friend, that being true, the idea that his captor was his only link to life doesn't stand, now does it?
I know what it is like to be scared of an offender. I also know the feeling of vidication when everyone knew in no uncertain terms what that person had done.
What was I responsible for? Not speaking up sooner that I did. If I can live with and accept that reality, why can't you? My personal responsibilty for my own actions has nothing to do with with the offenders blame for what they did, do you see that now?
I'm too busy. I'm not interested in this discussion with you.