Pelosi said, more than once, that the friction (or the dispute, can't remember her exact words) was coming from within the Pentagon (or the Defense Department), because she has been a critic of their waste, fraud and abuse. She said, again more than once, that the dispute was not coming from the president - that he's been a good boy about rolling over and giving her everything she wants (OK, so those are my words).
Pelosi is not at all concerned about making more enemies at the DOD, from the looks of her accusations tonight.