"...however I don't see how those actions would affect my fathers ability to run a business or Rudy's to govern the Nation."
Lack of trust ruins any relationship. I didn't believe a damn thing Clinton said to us, and therefore didn't support a damn thing he did. I thoroughly enjoyed being able to believe my President for the last six years, and I would rather keep it that way.
You don't have "a relationship" with the President Of The United States. You vote for someone who can execute the oath of office competently and in the interests of the nation.
It doesn't matter whether you "trust" or have "a relationship" with the President. It matters only that you vote for the person who can best serve the nation and the U.S. Constitution.
I can't guess your own motives, but it's clear that many on these threads have an almost infantile or childish view of what a U.S. President should be. He ain't Big Daddy.