He probably should have thought about this before he slept with her.
I’m not sure being a sperm donor confers any legal or moral rights to him yet. But I also hate that “we are pregnant” thing some guys say. I loved my husband. I loved the unborn baby I was carrying. But “we” were never pregnant. I was.
I’m against abortion and it should be severely restricted. But even more against someone infringing on my rights. What’s next, the “father” forcing a pregnant mom to take her pre-natal vitamins or drink milk or have certain procedures?
I’m sorry for the fellow in this situation. I’m sorry that knowing someone is willing to take this baby (I’m assuming he is willing to do that if he doesn’t want her to have an abortion) doesn’t dissuade this woman and more women in this same situation.
It always bothers me that a shortage of adoptable babies and
a demand for abortion co-exist.
It's a shame that you are apprently completely unappreciative of all the things your husband did for when you were pregnant and all the sacrifices he made and was willing to make for you and the child.
A sadly all-too-typical example of the modern attitude of atomistic individualism.