[nativist]

Thats a great idea. Here is a woman who has his child in her womb and wants to kill it but if he would marry her maybe she would change her mind.

I have a friend whose wife aborted their child while they were married and told him about it later.

Get off your high horse.

[sportutegrl]

He never mentions if he made the offer. That would be the first thing I would do, if I wanted the baby. If he did and was rejected, then I am wrong. If he is already married, and this baby is the result of an affair, then I have no sympathy for him. If, however, he wants the baby but not the girlfriend as wife and mother, then I would like to suggest some of my mom's advice, updated: Never sleep with any one you wouldn’t marry. (Originally, "Never date . . .)