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Why Being Manly Is Good For You
Forbes ^ | 04.23.07 | Allison Van Dusen

Posted on 04/22/2007 10:20:47 PM PDT by nickcarraway

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To: ozzymandus
Yeah, right, all men who aren’t whining crybabies are potential mass murderers, according to you? Did Oprah tell you that?

For the record, I thought Cho Sueng-Hui whined too much about nothing, making him the center of attention, as if the rest of the world didn't exist in it's relative normal state.

21 posted on 04/22/2007 11:24:23 PM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: nickcarraway

How about this: If hunting suits you, then hunt. If sitting home and knitting suits you, then knit. It’s the guys who bend themselves out of shape doing what they’re “supposed” to be doing who finally snap.


22 posted on 04/22/2007 11:26:53 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: BigSkyFreeper
I have children and grandchildren of both human types..they are all emotional in their own way...one cries, one gripes. Six of one, half a dozen of the other. It's all the same as long as you know the code. LOL.
23 posted on 04/22/2007 11:31:02 PM PDT by Earthdweller (All reality is based on faith in something.)
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To: BigSkyFreeper
So you believe it's healthy to keep everything all bottled up until one becomes a basketcase, then driven to drink to excess, or kill 32 people?

Most men generally find some sort of outlet for their aggressions. My husband likes to go out and hit other people with sticks about once or twice a week.

I mentioned this on another thread. I know a young fellow who is a gentleman, a bit of a geek, very cute, and often has a flock of girls around him. He's hard working, an excellent cook, and can sew. I can talk to him about almost anything. He complains to me that he has trouble finding a steady girlfriend. Especially one who isn't a psycho. If the girls his age see him as I do, it's no wonder. He's more of a "hairy girl friend" than a manly man.

24 posted on 04/22/2007 11:35:20 PM PDT by HungarianGypsy (Fight global warming. Eat a cow.)
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To: durasell
How about this: If hunting suits you, then hunt. If sitting home and knitting suits you, then knit. It’s the guys who bend themselves out of shape doing what they’re “supposed” to be doing who finally snap.

I agree. Pick up a hobby, or something you enjoy, and leave the rest of us the hell alone.

The ones who get drug kicking, screaming, and whining to the shopping mall have no control of their own lives. Besides, I like going to the shopping mall. I know some go just for the pleasure of walking, and nothing else. Some go just to jog their miles for the day. (you find a lot of that in the northern climates in the winter time)

25 posted on 04/22/2007 11:38:59 PM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: BigSkyFreeper

Not to mention, there are few things sadder or more annoying than some guy pretending to be a “manly man.”


26 posted on 04/22/2007 11:43:08 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: HungarianGypsy
He's hard working, an excellent cook, and can sew. I can talk to him about almost anything. He complains to me that he has trouble finding a steady girlfriend. Especially one who isn't a psycho. If the girls his age see him as I do, it's no wonder. He's more of a "hairy girl friend" than a manly man.

Sounds a lot like me, except I haven't mastered the technique of sewing. My dearly departed grandmother taught my brother and I how to crochet when we were about 6 years old.

I've got quite a number of girl friends in my social circle who have confidence and enough trust in me to say whatever is on their mind, even if it's a personal problem. I think if we all lived sheltered lives with problems mounting inside us, we'd all go crazy.

27 posted on 04/22/2007 11:44:53 PM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: durasell
Not to mention, there are few things sadder or more annoying than some guy pretending to be a “manly man.”

I agree. Nothing grates me more than some goof thinking he's more manly than the rest of the male species, just because some of us happen to expand our horizons beyond hunting, NASCAR, and tinkering with the car in the garage.

I happen to know a female FReeper who enjoys deer hunting in the fall. Her and her husband make a weekend of it. They're both teachers, and have a cabin in the woods.

I jokingly asked her if she was ever a tomboy in school, she said she was far from it.

28 posted on 04/22/2007 11:49:21 PM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: goldstategop

One more thing.... Are you aware that this conservative political forum is occupied by approximately 70% women...gasp! We are not all the enemy! Imagine that.


29 posted on 04/22/2007 11:51:34 PM PDT by Earthdweller (All reality is based on faith in something.)
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To: Earthdweller
I have children and grandchildren of both human types..they are all emotional in their own way...one cries, one gripes. Six of one, half a dozen of the other. It's all the same as long as you know the code. LOL.

I was once like that when I was a child and grandchild. Always wanting my way. I learned later (little older and a little wiser) to get my way, I had to take control of my life. :)

30 posted on 04/22/2007 11:51:59 PM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: Clemenza
OK I remember that old SNL bit :>
31 posted on 04/22/2007 11:53:01 PM PDT by tophat9000 (Al-Qaidacrats =A new political party combining the anti American left and the anti Semite right)
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To: BigSkyFreeper

:) Don’t we all.


32 posted on 04/22/2007 11:53:02 PM PDT by Earthdweller (All reality is based on faith in something.)
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To: BigSkyFreeper

It’s not a contest as to who is more manly.


33 posted on 04/22/2007 11:53:28 PM PDT by durasell (!)
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To: BigSkyFreeper
"Quien es mas macho; Ricardo Montalban o Lorenzo Lamas?"

Laurie Anderson

L

34 posted on 04/22/2007 11:59:18 PM PDT by Lurker (Comparing 'moderate' islam to 'extremist' islam is like comparing small pox to plague.)
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To: Lurker

Ricardo Montalban. He can sell Corinthian leather like no one else. ;)


35 posted on 04/23/2007 12:00:54 AM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: BigSkyFreeper
Si. Ricardo Montalban es mas macho.

I haven't thought about that song in years.

The fact that you and I remember that Corinthian leather reference really dates us.

L

36 posted on 04/23/2007 12:03:57 AM PDT by Lurker (Comparing 'moderate' islam to 'extremist' islam is like comparing small pox to plague.)
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To: nickcarraway

Being manly is good for you because it’ll keep bullies from beating the crap out of you everyday, thereby reducing your chance of permanently ending up in a wheelchair?


37 posted on 04/23/2007 12:06:28 AM PDT by LibWhacker
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To: Lurker
The fact that you and I remember that Corinthian leather reference really dates us.

LOL, it was a good selling point. My grandparents bought one of them "boats". It put my grandfather back in my grandmother's good graces after the "new sofa" he bought her, which was actually 4-wheel drive pickup truck.

38 posted on 04/23/2007 12:07:41 AM PDT by BigSkyFreeper (There is no alternative to the GOP except varying degrees of insanity)
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To: BigSkyFreeper

> For the record, I thought Cho Sueng-Hui whined too much about nothing, making him the center of attention, as if the rest of the world didn’t exist in it’s relative normal state.

I’ll go one further. Read with an uncritical eye (ignoring for a moment that a monster wrote it) the filthy drivel that Cho Seung-Hui wrote, and a fair minded person will find that he had an interesting and tragic sense of irony.

And a very sorrowful world-view. Consider:

This crim had a very poor way of expressing what he felt, and a definitely wrong-headed view on life, and very little talent as a writer. A barely tolerable grasp of the English languange. But his sense of Irony was interesting. “Mr Brownstone” was a really good example of this.

Here you’ve got these kids, who have sneaked into a casino because they can’t hang out anywhere else, for some reason. Using fake ID to get in and thus breaking the rules. Playing the slots like they are not supposed to do. And they have been “a$$-raped” by an all-powerful maths teacher, “Mr Brownstone”. Their universal Nemesis.

They talk and bitch and complain about the guy, and Lo! He appears! (Speak of the Devil...)

Even worse, one of them just won the BIG JACKPOT!!! Suddenly, they are wealthy as Croesus!

But wait! There’s more...

They get ripped off by Mr Brownstone once again! They get a$$-raped in their moment of triumph, and this is allowed to happen because they have broken the arbitrary rules (they are underage) and nobody will believe them.

The System throws them out. Mr Brownstone the A$$-raper triumphant, as usual. As always.

The tale ends with empty threats and the powerless impotent vitupritation. We’ll get you!!! We’ll get you!!!

With the clear implication that this scenario is going to re-play itself again and again and again and again in their lives...

Ironic. Tragic. Sick. Sad. Sorrowful.

Am I a softie or liberal because I can see this in this sicko’s writings? I don’t believe so, I know that I’m not.

But I *do* believe it is important to “First know the enemy...”

Doesn’t mean I agree with ‘em. I just prefer to Know Them.


39 posted on 04/23/2007 12:07:43 AM PDT by DieHard the Hunter
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To: LibWhacker

Very practical. LOL.


40 posted on 04/23/2007 12:07:51 AM PDT by Earthdweller (All reality is based on faith in something.)
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