“Black women are equally unpopular because men of all races find them unattractive.”
Speak for yourself. I find a lot of black women very attractive, but I never have found a black woman who didn’t insist she wanted only to date and marry a black man. The odds of finding a black woman and white man together are far slimmer than the odds of finding a white woman and a black man, and that’s not entirely because of the biases of black and white men.
That's not my personal view. I find women of all races and ethnicities attractive. I am merely stating what seems to be the view, on average, of major segments of the male population. Not everyone feels that way. You and I are exceptions. But a majority of the male population finds black women the least attractive of all the races. It is what it is.
My ex-wife is black, and aside from a latent moonbat crazy streak that ultimately made us incompatible, was a great catch. Beautiful, sharp as a tack, funny, educated, and family-oriented. She was kind of a lone wolf, and didn't really care what other black or white people thought, but I imagine it would have been a lot harder for her if she did. Ditto for me, I'm not trying to fit anyone's sterotype. Probably part of the attraction.
But your overall point is right, to the point that I could write a book on the subject. It was far more common for us to see white women with black guys, and their dynamic seemed different than ours. They seemed a lot more cognizant of biased cultural observations people made and sensitive to percieved slights. We took our fair share as well, but as far as we were concerned, it told more about the people making them then it did us. You can find love anywhere, just as you can find stupidity anywhere. ;-)
Black women are hesitant to date white men because the common wisdom among them is that white guys generally only want them for sex and would never consider marrying them. I've heard this comment from numerous black women.
“Speak for yourself. I find a lot of black women very attractive, but I never have found a black woman who didn’t insist she wanted only to date and marry a black man. The odds of finding a black woman and white man together are far slimmer than the odds of finding a white woman and a black man, and that’s not entirely because of the biases of black and white men.”
I found the exact opposite, I dated a black woman (conservative, yes, they exist) for 3 years, and all of her black female freinds had already dated white/latino men, or were extremely curious.