“Women just keep it inside forever.”
My wife once had a co-worker who kept a book where she recorded things her husband did wrong so she could use it as ammo when they had fights.
I don’t mean to sound rude, but would that include things like leaving the seat up?
My ex had a photographic memory (really) so she didn't even treat herself to the cathartic exercise of writing it out.
“My wife once had a co-worker who kept a book where she recorded things her husband did wrong so she could use it as ammo when they had fights.”
Why that’s a great idea!
;)
That could be simply a survival mechanism. If she's like me she draws a blank when, during an argument, the husband says, "Give me one example of ___________." And if she hasn't written it down she can't remember, espcially in a highly tense situation like a marital fight.