maybe aids because that is where the Lord has led, some people help alcoholics, some help the hungry, some help unwed mothers...
I really don't understand why you can't see the problem. Help dying people if you feel so led. That is good and not evil. Though the big production of it all seems a bit self-glorifying (charity done in secret seems more correct) -- either way, go outside of your church to do it so that you don't use the church as a poster child for Universalism.
Sometimes good intentions are not enough. Sometimes you have to be willing to look at what the finished product looks like and see if you are sending the wrong message.