But, those of us that send our kids to public schools can also take pride in their accomplishments. My younger child is the Valedictorian of her graduating class. She did it while being a Varsity athlete, a top 5 state ranked musician, and while taking 12 AP courses with a 4.0+ GPA.
We consider ourselves lucky also that we had the financial means to live in a good school district and the spiritual knowledge to keep her (and her sister) on the right path.
You won't screw your kids up. Good parents know instinctively what is best for their little ones.
Good luck - I'm sure s/he will continue to do well! It's a fun journey
Well said and thank you.