Outside of it being a readiness issue, it is just another huge political battleground for the queers to win on. They don't care about gays serving openly in the military, they just want another legal victory to change one of our largest and proudest institutions.....as they have TV, the media, churches and the classrooms. They hate the armed forces.
Once this is hurdle is negotiated, they'll move on to the next.
I'm not keeping score. Something either makes sense or it doesn't. It's either harmful or it's not. It's either right or not.
The poster I was responding to has put herself into a situation where she must lie or tell herself something doesn't exist to make it okay. Think about that situation and why that's any more normal or right than someone being queer.