Adoption may be the perfect choice for her and her baby, and please, God, let that be true. Otherwise, when she walks through that door, encountering your unyielding prejudices against ALL parents, except the ideal family that YOU have decided is the correct, the only family in which a child should be reared...she will be told, by you...that SHE is not that ideal parent, she does not fit YOUR mold...
Sad. Pathetic. Wrong.
I wish I could respect what you are doing, for adoption is a wonderful thing for many, many children and many, many families, but, respect is impossible with your unrelenting refusal to embrace anything other than your own narrow views.
I am now finished with any further discussions with you...after a near dozen or so posts between the two of us, incredulously, you ask why I am angry? ...?!?!?
Either you have read nothing I have written or you have severe comprehension problems...anyway, I am finished. I will post nothing further to you. I will not read additional posts from you.
We don’t advise adoptions, we are an adoption agency, so anyone who walks in the door has already pretty much made up their mind.
We are simply facilitators to get birth parents and adoptive parents together.